I have been following Vaneetha Rendal Risner since 2018. She has written a guide on ways to love/help people in their suffering which is the link I am sharing. Honestly, it is one of the best resources I have found for how to support someone in their suffering. Sometimes when someone is suffering we will tell them that we are praying for them, which is a great thing to do, but sometimes they might appreciate something more than only praying for them, but there are times we don’t really know what to do other than pray. This has some practical tips that can be applied. I highly recommend checking it out. All you need to do is click on the link and put your email address in and it will be sent to your email.